Saturday, March 5, 2011

Jiddu Krishnamurti



I hope everyone gets to opportunity to understand something from this very wise man:

"Find out for yourselves why you dream at all, not how to interpret dreams. Why do you dream and is it necessary to dream? You dream because during the day your mind is so occupied with outward things, your office, the kitchen, washing dishes, the children, outwardly occupied with the radio, the television, the newspaper, the magazine, the trees, the rivers, the clouds and everything that is impinging upon your mind. At those moments there is no hint of the unconscious. Obviously when the surface mind is very occupied, the deeper layers of consciousness, of that mind, have no relationship with it. And when you go to sleep, the superficial mind, which has been so occupied during the day, is somewhat quiet - not entirely quiet, but somewhat quiet. I am not a psychologist, I am not a specialist, but I have observed this and you can do it for yourselves. So when you go to sleep the superficial mind is fairly quiet and then the deeper layers intimate their own demands, their own conflicts, their own agonies. And these become certain forms of dreams, with intimations, hints. Then you wake up and say `By Jove, I have had a dream, it tells me something, or I must do something with it.' Or as you are dreaming the interpretation is going on. If you have ever followed a dream, as you are dreaming, the interpretation is also taking place. Then when you wake up your problems are solved, your mind is lighter, fairly clear. Now all that process is a waste of energy, isn't it? Why should you dream at all? Because if you are really awake during the day, watching every thought, every feeling, every movement of the mind, your angers, your bitterness, your envies, your hates, your jealousies, watching your reactions when you are flattered, when you are insulted, when you are neglected, when you feel lonely, watching all that, and the trees, the movement of the water, being greatly aware of everything outside you, inwardly, then the whole of the unconsciousness, as well as the conscious, is opened up. You don't have to wait for the night to sleep, to have the intimations of the unconscious. Then, if you do this, watch your mind in operation, your feelings, your heart, your reactions - that is, if you know yourself as you are in your relationships with the outer and with your own feelings - then you will see that when you go to sleep there is no dreaming at all. Then the mind becomes an extraordinary instrument which is always renewing itself - because there is no conflict at all, it is always fresh. And this is not a theory, you can't practise it. Such a mind is, by its very nature, really tranquil, quiet, silent. It is only such a mind that can see the beauty of life; and such a mind alone can know, can come upon, something which is beyond time."

Sunday, January 30, 2011

A Kiss Without a Hug is Like a Flower Without the Fragrance


I feel like I've gotten closer.  You see, the experience I currently hold with dating has amounted to almost perfect anymore.  I feel that I understand a lot more deeply how important communication is and how easy it should be.  Everything I learn just builds to the perfect match and the perfect me!  Patience really pays off in one way or another.  And still, while I do not quite search, I'm on my path...

Thursday, January 27, 2011

Catching Up and Staying Ahead of The Game...



"Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself." Harvey Fierstein

Sometimes we get so caught up in our lives that we forget to live.  I constantly remind myself of this, and I hope everyone does the same. 

Let us never slow down our momentum for sulking, talking ourselves down, or feeling discouraged.  We may not know which way we are going; but we definitely won't stop going.  If we end up nowhere but a new soul, let's embrace the journey. 

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Here Comes The Snow!


I'm looking forward to a little more of this...

Say 'hello' to winter!

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

This Is For You, American Airlines





How about a peace offering?  Do you prefer pie?  Please get me to Denver in the amount of time you promised this time.

Thanks.

Friday, January 1, 2010

New Orleans, New Year, and New Home

I had the opportunity to explore downtown New Orleans for the holidays. After uploading all photos, I found the following to be my favorites. I can't wait for school.












Friday, February 20, 2009

Here's to New Jobs and Such


I got hired at City Center today as a buyer. After almost 2 years, I'm finally working with a title I feel I deserve. El Fin.